Mary Jacobs Graham, age 85 of Whitesboro, N.J. and formerly of Lake Waccamaw died at her residence Tuesday, August 10, 2010 Daughter of the late Willie and Lois Jacobs, she was born in Clarkton, NC on August 21, 1924. Mary graduated from Farmers Union High School in Clarkton, NC. Married to Stedman Worth Graham in 1941, she moved from N.C. to Philadelphia, PA Mary and Stedman later moved to Whitesboro, NJ and raised seven children. They were early pioneers and settlers of Whitesboro. Mary worked at Crest Haven Rehabilitation Center for 10 years as a Nurse. She spent the next 30 years working at the Woodbine Developmental Center as a Cottage Training Technician. Mary was known by many as a faithful worker and leader. With an entrepreneurial gift for business, she leaves a legacy of selfless giving which includes family, friends and her community. Because of her southern upbringing and a love for cooking, there was always a hot meal and a warm smile for anyone who came by. She truly exemplified the art of giving back. Mary was instrumental in establishing the ARC along with Dr. Ulrich Laquer. They were both honored in 1969 for their grassroots work within the organization. She was also one of the original members of the Concerned Citizens of Whitesboro. Mary was a member of St. Stephens Church and later attended Christ Gospel Love Center. Mary was predeceased in death by her beloved husband, Stedman Worth Graham, son, Irvin Graham and daughter Nakoma Crawford. She was also preceded in death by six siblings, Willie Bunn Jacobs, Anthony Jacobs, Bruce Jacobs, Arniece Peacock, Louise Jacobs, Mattie Campbell Mary leaves to cherish her memory: Four children, Stedman Graham Jr., Anita Shelton, James Graham, and Darius Graham; Six grandchildren, Lois Saunders, Wanda Graham (deceased), Julius Graham, Mary Kathy Graham, Wendy Graham, Courtney Shelton and six great grandchildren; a brother, Clyde Jacobs; two sisters, Delphia Skerett, and Mamie Jacobs; other survivors include nieces and nephews; and a host of other relatives and friends. Final rites will be held 1:00 p.m. Wednesday, August 18, 2010 at Union Baptist Church with Reverend Glenn Spaulding and Reverend Greg Spaulding officiating. Interment will be in St. James Memorial Cemetery in Lake Waccamaw, NC. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to: Caring for Kids - Prevention of Child Abuse and Neglect - Box 695, Cape May Court House, NJ 08210. Worthington Funeral Home in Chadbourn is in charge of arrangements. No service information has been added.